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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 04:59

How does one succeed in life?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

If you could go back and rewrite the Legend of Korra, what would you change, and why?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Making more friends is a goal.

What should I do? I'm 17 and I'm dating a 23-year-old guy.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What I need from you?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Procrastinates a lot.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Who is the most dangerous or evilest person of all time?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How do I identify fake friends in life?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Does not procrastinate.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Have you ever followed through being bi-curious?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Ask yourself:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What are 10 interesting facts about you?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

That's it for today.